Mental health journeys are tough. Whether you go it alone, or with loved ones by your side, the road to recovery is a hard one. One important thing that's always been with me throughout my own journey has been music. Music has a way of putting words to emotions and experiences that I never could, and so for this blog post I'll be sharing some of the songs and artists that have most helped me identify with my mental illnesses.
Maybe you will recognise some of these songs and identify with them yourself, or perhaps some other songs will come to mind. Feel free to let me know what music has helped you on your own mental health journey; I'd love to know!
TW - themes of suicide, self-harm, depression etc. // CW - long post
1. Halsey - Control
"I'm bigger than my body / I'm colder than this home / I'm meaner than my demons / I'm bigger than these bones / and all the kids cried out 'please stop you're scaring me' / I can't help this awful energy / God damn right you should be scared of me / who is in control?"
"I paced around for hours on empty / I jumped at the slightest of sounds / and I couldn't stand the person inside me / I turned all the mirrors around"
"I've gotten familiar with villains that live in my head / they beg me to write them so I'll never die when I'm dead"
2. Linkin Park - Heavy (ft. Kiiara)
"I don't like my mind right now / stacking up problems that are so unnecessary / wish that I could slow things down / I wanna let go but there's comfort in the panic"
"I'm holding on / why is everything so heavy? / holding on to so much more than I can carry / I've been dragging around what's bringing me down / if I just let go I'd be set free"
"you say that I'm paranoid / but I'm pretty sure the world is out to get me / It's not like I made the choice / to let my mind stay so fucking messy"
3. Paramore - Hard Times
"all that I want / is to wake up fine / tell me that I'm alright / and I ain't gonna die / all that I want / is a hole in the ground / you can tell me when it's alright / for me to come out"
"hard times / gonna make you wonder why you even try / (hard times) gonna take you down and laugh when you cry / (these lives) and I still don't know how I even survive"
"walking around / with my little rain cloud / hanging over my head / and it ain't coming down / where do I go? / gimme some sort of sign / you hit me with lightening! / maybe I'll come alive"
4. My Chemical Romance - The Light Behind Your Eyes
"be strong and hold my hand / time it comes for us, you'll understand / we'll say goodbye, today / and we're sorry how it ends this way / if you promise not to cry / then I'll tell you just what I would say"
"sometimes we must grow stronger / and you can't be stronger in the dark / when I'm here no longer / you must be stronger and / if I could be with you, tonight / I would sing you to sleep / never let them take / the light behind your eyes / I failed and lost this fight / never fade in the dark / just remember / you will always burn as bright"
5. Thirty Seconds to Mars - Alibi
"no warning sign, no alibi / we faded faster than the speed of light / took our chance, crashed and burned / no we'll never ever learn / I fell apart, but got back up again"
"we both could see crystal clear / that the inevitable end was near / made our choice, a trial by fire / to battle is the only way we feel alive"
6. Johnny Cash - Hurt (originally by Nine Inch Nails)
"I hurt myself today / to see if I still feel / I focus on the pain / the only thing that's real / the needle tears a hole / the old familiar sting / try to kill it all away / but I remember everything"
"what have I become / my sweetest friend / everyone I know goes away / in the end / and you could have it all / my empire of dirt / I will let you down / I will make you hurt"
"full of broken thoughts / that I cannot repair / beneath the stains of time / the feelings disappear"
7. Eminem - Going Through Changes
"why do I act like I'm all high and mighty / when inside I'm dying / I am finally realising I need help / can't do it myself / too weak / two weeks I've been having ups and downs / going through peaks and valleys / dilly-dallying around with the idea of ending this shit right here"
"sleeping pills will make me feel alright / and if I'm still awake in the middle of the night / I'll just take a couple more / yeah, you're motherfuckin' right"
"wake up in the hospital / full of tubes / but somehow I'm pulling through / swear when I come back I'mma be bulletproof"
8. Avril Lavigne - Nobody's Home
"she wants to go home / but nobody's home / that's where she lies / broken inside / with no place to go / no place to go / to dry her eyes / broken inside"
"what's wrong, what's wrong now? / too many, too many problems / don't know where she belongs"
"her feelings she hides / her dreams she can't find / she's losing her mind / she's falling behind / she can't find her place / she's losing her faith / she's falling from grace / she's all over the place"
9. The Neighbourhood - R.I.P. 2 My Youth
"might be a sinner, and I might be a saint / I'd like to be proud, but somehow I'm ashamed / sweet little baby in a world full of pain / I gotta be honest, I don't know if I could take it"
"close my eyes and then cross my arms / put me in the dirt, let me dream with the stars"
"I was naïve and hopeful and lost / now I'm aware and trapped in my thoughts"
10. Shawn Mendes - In My Blood
"laying on the bathroom floor, feeling nothing / I'm overwhelmed and insecure, give me something / I could take to ease my mind slowly / just have a drink and you'll feel better / just take her home and you'll feel better / keep telling me that it gets better / does it ever?"
"help me, it's like the walls are caving in / sometimes I feel like giving up / no medicine is strong enough / someone help me / I'm crawling in my skin / sometimes I feel like giving up / but I just can't / it isn't in my blood / it isn't in my blood"
"looking through my phone again, feeling anxious / afraid to be alone again, I hate this"
11. Mike Shinoda - Crossing a Line
"I don't know how to warn you / for what I'm gonna say / 'cause you're holding so tight to / what I'm taking away / I got demons inside me / so I'm faced with a choice / either try to ignore them / or I give them a voice"
"and it's keeping me up at night / worried it's not alright / holding back things you don't know / and it's keeping me up at night / worried it's not alright / you're not gonna like where this goes"
"and they'll tell you I don't care anymore / and I hope you'll know that's a lie / 'cause I've found what I have been waiting for / but to get there means crossing a line / so I'm crossing a line"
12. Halsey - Devil in Me
"I won't take anyone down if I crawl tonight / but I still let everyone down when I change in size / and I went tumbling down tryna reach your high / but I scream too loud when I speak my mind"
"I don't wanna wake it up / the devil in me // gotta wake up / come back to life"
13. Paramore - Fake Happy
"I been doing a good job of making 'em think / I'm quite alright / but I hope I don't blink / you see it's easy when I'm stomping on a beat / but no one sees me when I crawl back underneath"
"oh please, don't ask me how I've been / don't make me play pretend / oh no, oh what's the use? / oh please, I bet everybody here is fake happy too"
"I know I said that I was doing good and that I'm happy now / I should've know that when things are good that's when I get knocked down"
14. Kansas - Carry on my Wayward Son
"carry on my wayward son / there'll be peace when you are done / lay your weary head to rest / don't you cry no more"
"once I rose above the noise and confusion / just to get a glimpse beyond this illusion / I was soaring ever higher / but I flew too high"
"on a stormy sea of moving emotion / tossed about, I'm like a ship on the ocean / I set a course for winds of fortune / but I hear the voices say..."
15. Linkin Park - One More Light
"should've stayed / were there signs I ignored? / can I help you / not to hurt anymore? / we saw brilliance / when the world was asleep / there are things that we can have / but can't keep"
"if they say / who cares when one more light goes out? / in a sky of a million stars / it flickers, flickers / who cares when someone's time runs out? / if a moment is all we are / we're quicker, quicker / who cares if one more light goes out? / well, I do"
16. Kesha - This is Me
"I am not a stranger to the dark / 'hide away,' they say / ''cause we don't want your broken parts' / I've learned to be ashamed of all my scars / 'run away,' they say / 'no one will love you as you are'"
"but I won't let them break me down to dust / I know that there's a place for us / for we are glorious"
"when the sharpest words wanna cut me down / I'm gonna send a flood, I'm gonna drown them out / I am brave / I am bruised / I am who I'm meant to be / this is me"
17. The Neighbourhood - Afraid
"keep on dreaming / don't stop giving / fight those demons / sell your soul, not your whole self / if they see you when you're sleeping / make them leave it / and I can't even see if it's all there anymore so"
"you're too mean / I don't like you / fuck you anyway / you make me wanna scream at the top of my lungs / it hurts but I won't fight you / you suck anyway / you make me wanna die"
"being me can only mean / feeling scared to breathe / if you leave me then I'll be afraid of everything / that makes me anxious / gives me patience / calms me down / let me face this / let me sleep / and when I wake up / let me breathe"
18. K.flay - Little Bit Crazy (Made by Monkeys Remix)
"did you ever think that just maybe / we're supposed to be a little bit crazy / can it be? / we're really this mentally diseased?"
"as I stare at an ink blot / thinking why I think the thoughts I think / paying 20 g's a year straight to my shrink / to analyse me on a couch / and while he's zoning out / I'm tuning in to my inner child / so that explains why I get wild / on the weekend drinking no tomorrow / sleep around to ease my sorrow / and it all relates to what happened in second grade"
"I am told there is a name for what is wrong inside my brain / and that fact alone makes me feel like I'm hardly that insane"
19. Mike Shinoda - Over Again
"we rehearsed it for a month / I'm not worried about the set / I get tackled by the grief at times that I would least expect / I know what I should be doing when I'm singing but instead / we'll be playing through a song and I'd remember in my head"
"how do you feel? / how you doing? / how'd the show go? / am I insane to say the truth is that I don't know? / my body aches head's spinning this is all wrong / I almost lost it in the middle of a couple songs"
20. Halsey - Angel on Fire
"and I'm faded away / you know, I used to be on fire / I'm standing in the ashes of who I used to be / and I'm faded away / you know, I used to be on fire"
"'cause I'd laugh and drink and talk about things / and fall in love in my back yard / now it's my own anxiety / that makes the conversation hard / and nobody seems to ask about me anymore / and nobody ever cares about anything thing I think / and nobody seems to recognise me in the crowd / in the background screaming, 'everybody look at me'"
Do you have any songs that helped you relate to mental illness? Let me know in the comments!
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